
Friendly match between Zaldy and Richard in the Philippines in 2000
Since my late wife’s passing over two years ago, my outlook in life has changed from that which I previously held. My previous jobs had no idea that I was involved in such a hobby, I told a few people whom I trusted to keep it a secret. Well, after much self deliberation and getting up there in age…haha, I decided to share my hobby with my Affinity friends, who I consider to be like family to me.
For the past 35 years, one of my hobbies that I am actively involved in (from the learning, training & teaching aspects), is a Filipino martial arts known as Eskrima (sticks, knives, swords, and empty-handed techniques are taught). I have been truly fortunate, grateful and truly humbled to have studied and trained in Muay Thai kickboxing, Western boxing, Indonesian Silat, Chinese Wing Chun Gung-Fu and Filipino Eskrima with eight different grandmasters and masters in the martial arts world. My current system doesn’t have a belt ranking, I am proud and honored to be a senior instructor in my current system (Laban Tulisan Eskrima) and authorized by my current master with the ability to teach.
The following are but a few teachers/instructors who I have studied under in seminars and actual in-person classes/sessions:
Master Dan Inosanto, best known (in the martial arts community) for being the late Bruce Lee’s personal friend, torch bearer of Bruce Lee’s “Jeet Kune Do” and sparring partner for eight years up until Bruce’s death in 1973. Dan Inosanto is 75 years of age now and still currently teaches martial arts in Los Angeles; just search his name in Wikipedia to learn more about him.
Grandmaster Leo Giron, who was 91 years of age when he passed away and was a decorated war hero during WWII with 26 confirmed, kills. He served directly under Gen. Douglas MacArthur’s secretive 978th signal group against the Japanese. He received a letter of commendation by the then president, President FDR. His system still lives on in Stockton, Calif.
Grandmaster Edgar Sulite, was a young 39 years of age when he passed away in 1997. He founded LAMECO Eskrima for long range, medium range, and close range fighting. His double sticks and knife fighting techniques were exceptional. His system still thrives in Los Angeles and Europe.
Master Ner R, is highly sought after by law enforcement to teach his knife fighting techniques. He has taught the Navy Seals and the Tennessee Swat team. He is my current instructor and has been my instructor for the last 13 years. His system was handed down to him by his late father which came from five generations of family members. His system is known as” Laban Tulisan” it means to fight the bandits. It was widely used by towns people to protect themselves from marauding bandits, against the Spaniards (during the Spanish-American War), and against the Japanese during WWII.
I met Master Ner through a mutual master, and I used to go to Master Ner’s place once a week in the hopes of him teaching me. For six straight months, I would be seated in his living room for a few hours at night and we would be talking about current events or about family but never about martial arts. I knew he was testing and studying me as a person, to see if I had the patience, discipline, and the humility in order for him to teach me his system.
The first two years were the hardest training sessions I went through. I trained with Master Ner at night after a long day at work, normally from 8pm to midnight. He would train me with lights on or just the full moon at night. Since we practiced outside, I would sometimes be practicing my footwork and strikes while it was raining (real dark outside) or under chilly and muggy conditions.
People from Ventura, Los Angeles, Riverside, and Corona come to the Master’s place and get together every other Saturday for a practice session for a few hours or until the Master decides it’s time to stop when He sees how tired our faces look. My Affinity friends are invited and welcome to meet Master Ner and join us for a Saturday session! In closing, Master Ner has a saying when it comes to knife fighting “have patience or you will end up a patient”.